What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 02:25
62~ Have you used adult toys?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Why is the covert narcissist actively avoiding me when they see me everyday?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Can a meme heal what therapy can't?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Why do subpar women think that they are nines and tens?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
What is the word for truth and its meaning in Koine Greek?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Why do unattractive men assume that a pretty woman like me want them?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Do you think the constitution and laws should be taught in school?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
Why are men so attracted to big breasts?
Any that are a turn off?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Why do most people care so much about what others think? Are they afraid of society norms?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
52~ What are your hobbies?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
How old are you? Male or Female?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
39~ What are your love languages?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Family Relation Age Play
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
What is your favorite position? Why?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
If you win, what will you make them do?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
*** Random Questions ***
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Would you read them together?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
29- How superstitious are you?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
Nothing too Serious
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
If yes, what?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Any that are a turn off?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
Please share Did you stop?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
*** Questions About Me ***
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?